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Beyond Obedience: 

where connection meets transformation

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SERVICES

Transform the Way You Connect with Your Dog

01

day camp

Structured support for reactive, sensitive, or high-energy dogs. A calm, purposeful alternative to traditional daycare. Your dog will join a small pack to work on:

  • Impulse control & polite socialization

  • Treadmill sessions for balanced energy & confidence building

  • Structured crate & place work for nervous system regulation

  • Pack migration and decompression

Mondays & Wednesdays: 9 AM – 2 PM
Saturdays: 10 AM – 3 PM
Up to 10 dogs per day
Monthly commitment required

➡️ Complete the application here to schedule an evaluation and learn more about how to join the pack.

02

1:1 training

Personalized support to deepen the bond with your dog

Whether you're navigating reactivity, looking to build structure, or simply want to better communicate with your dog, private sessions offer tailored guidance.

All first sessions focus on long line and place work—the foundation for building connection, calm, and relevance both in the home and on walks.

Initial sessions take place at a neutral park
Follow-ups can be at home or wherever you need support​

  • Initial Session (1.5 hours): $150

  • Follow-Up (1 hour): $100

  • Travel Fee: +$25 if outside a 10-mile radius

03

beyond obedience day train

Immersive half-day training to support you and your dog

Your dog spends the day with us for targeted training based on your goals—learning how to stay calm, build connection, and navigate real-life situations.

At the end of the day, you’ll receive:

  • A video recap

  • A summary of what we worked on

  • Homework to help you stay consistent

4-hour session | Pick-up & drop-off included within 10 miles
$250

04

daily lifestyle training program

Like a board & train—but your dog sleeps at home!

This immersive weekday training program is perfect for dogs needing a reset or structured routine.

Your dog joins our pack to:

  • Learn polite behaviors and safe socialization

  • Practice calm crate/place work and public outings

  • Reinforce leadership and pack walking

  • Build consistency between our training and your home life

You’ll receive regular video updates, daily homework, and support integrating the work into your routines.

 

1–4 week options available | Monday–Friday (dog returns home each evening + weekends)

Custom pricing based on program length and goals 

05

relationship-building course

The foundation for everything we teach.

This 4-week course walks you through dog psychology basics and helps you build a stronger relationship with your dog—starting at home.

  • Self-paced online course with video modules + PDFs

  • Homework prompts for real-life application

  • Lifetime access to our private Facebook group

  • Monthly Zoom office hours for ongoing support

Add-on: In-person small group (meets weekly, max 6 dogs)

  • Online Only: $275

  • Online + In-Person: $400

ABOUT

who is pack love?

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Hi, I’m Hilary — dog mom to Lola and Bingley, and a trainer focused on dog psychology, relationship-based training, and calm leadership.

If you’re navigating life with a reactive or sensitive dog, I see you — and I’m so glad you’re here.

When I adopted Lola, a bully mix with a big heart and even bigger feelings, I didn’t realize I was reinforcing her reactivity by allowing her to live in a constant state of stress. I thought she was just excited, just stubborn, just “being her.” But over time, that unchecked energy became fear and reactivity — and traditional obedience wasn’t helping us connect or communicate any better.

I began studying dog psychology and everything shifted. I learned how to lead calmly, advocate for her needs, and build a relationship rooted in trust and mutual respect. She got better — and so did I.

That transformation is why I do what I do now: helping humans step into conscious leadership and build strong, respectful relationships with their dogs.

If you’re ready to shift from reactivity and confusion to clarity and connection, I’d be honored to support you.

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APPROACH

Dog Psychology and Human Education

My goal is to help you build a strong, trusting relationship with your dog by addressing the root cause of behavior — not just the symptoms. Through the lens of dog psychology and relationship-based training, I’ll guide you in learning how to communicate clearly, lead with calm confidence, and support your dog in the world you've brought them into. Whether your dog is reactive, overly excited, or deeply sensitive, I believe that — with the right support — you both can experience more freedom, less stress, and a more peaceful daily life together. My job isn’t just to train your dog — it’s to teach you how to teach your dog. Because when you lead, they follow.

TESTIMONIALS

Client Love

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"Cultivating Calm was a great way to focus on and reinforce calm behavior.  We learned and practiced several methods and utilized different tools.  Hilary provided numerous helpful videos that were great “how-to” examples.  I really enjoyed the long-line work and emphasis on structure at home. I definitely feel like the class has made for a much calmer home environment which was my primary goal."

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"Hilary has been a leader of our Bully Breed Bunch community since we started Lead With Love University. She is the Captain of San Diego and has been everything this community needs and more. We appreciate her dedication to humans and dogs. She truly has become exactly what the dog community has needed for so long."

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"My dog made friends with the dog of the girl I've been dating! It wouldn't have been possible without you. I walked the dogs side by side, then eventually they had some loose lead play time with each other. You have changed our lives. Thank you so very much!"

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Let's work together

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